http://tiabuilder.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/if-sex-is-so-great-why-does-it-screw-up-so-many-lives/ Causes and Cures for Today's Epidemic Social Problems Mon, 16 Nov 2009 22:55:22 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 http://tiabuilder.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/if-sex-is-so-great-why-does-it-screw-up-so-many-lives/#comment-940 crynclani Sun, 03 Aug 2008 01:32:37 +0000 http://tiabuilder.wordpress.com/?p=271#comment-940 Thanks for the post Thanks for the post

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]]> http://tiabuilder.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/if-sex-is-so-great-why-does-it-screw-up-so-many-lives/#comment-907 Pemo Theodore Sun, 06 Jul 2008 09:33:53 +0000 http://tiabuilder.wordpress.com/?p=271#comment-907 Bill - You've made some good points in this post. I note particularly your suggestion that mates could be found for each phase of our lives. I would imagine because the goal for each relationship would be much clearer & shared then there would be much more chance of success. Unfortunately being human comes with the tendency not to conform to logical goals. And relationships are often the product of unconscious motivations and therefore the results are often a mess. Paying attention to our own unconscious motivations & urges would certainly assist us in having successful partnerships with others. Matchmaking can be a wonderful way to identify & clarify what our initial goals are for a relationship at any stage or age & therefore can assist in the successful outcome. This is my speciality, check out my blog http://www.astramatch.com/blog. Pemo Bill – You’ve made some good points in this post. I note particularly your suggestion that mates could be found for each phase of our lives. I would imagine because the goal for each relationship would be much clearer & shared then there would be much more chance of success. Unfortunately being human comes with the tendency not to conform to logical goals. And relationships are often the product of unconscious motivations and therefore the results are often a mess. Paying attention to our own unconscious motivations & urges would certainly assist us in having successful partnerships with others. Matchmaking can be a wonderful way to identify & clarify what our initial goals are for a relationship at any stage or age & therefore can assist in the successful outcome. This is my speciality, check out my blog http://www.astramatch.com/blog.
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